A Healthier Christmas Approach – Group Talk – Week Commencing 15th December 2025.
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Christmas is meant to be joyful — yet for many people on a weight-loss or well-being journey, it becomes stressful. Food is everywhere, routines disappear, and pressure builds to either be perfect or to give up completely.
Today's message is simple: you don’t need counting or guilt to get through Christmas healthily. What you need is balance, awareness, and kindness towards yourself.
This is not about controlling Christmas—it’s about living through it well.
Counting calories or points supports our journeys — but at Christmas it often increases stress and backfires.
Common results include:
Anxiety around meals
Guilt after eating
All-or-nothing thinking
Overeating after restriction
Remember:
One festive week does not undo your health — but guilt and stress can.
Christmas weight gain usually isn’t about one meal. It’s about the mindset of “I’ve blown it, so I may as well continue.”
A healthier approach keeps you flexible, not rigid.
How to break the All-or-Nothing Mindset
“What thoughts usually show up for you around Christmas food?”
“I’ll start again in January.”
“I’ve failed.”
“I must avoid everything.”
Reframe:
“I can enjoy this and continue caring for myself.”
“One meal doesn’t define my progress.”
“Balance is still possible.”
Key message: Progress continues even when routines change.
The 3 Pillars of a Healthier Christmas
1. Mindful — Not Perfect — Choices
You don’t need everything. Choose what you truly enjoy.
Ask yourself:
“Do I really want this?”
“Will I enjoy it if I eat it slowly?”
Enjoyment with awareness leads to satisfaction.
2. Structure Without Rigidity
Skipping meals to "save calories" often leads to overeating later.
Instead:
Eat regular meals
Include protein and fibre where possible
Let festive food fit around nourishment
Think supportive structure, not strict rules.
3. Self-Compassion Over Self-Criticism
How you speak to yourself matters more than what you eat.
Replace:
“I’ve failed.”
With:
“That was more than I needed — and I can move on.”
Kindness lowers stress — and lower stress supports better choices.
Planning a Balanced Christmas Moment
When thinking of your next meal, party, or day.
One nourishing choice I could make
One festive food I will enjoy mindfully
One kind thing I will say to myself afterwards
Key message: Planning balance reduces anxiety.
Practical Tips to Carry Through Christmas
Plate your food instead of grazing
Sit down and eat slowly
Drink water alongside alcohol
Move your body gently — walks, stretching, dancing
Movement is for mood and wellbeing — not punishment.
Consider one intention you are taking into Christmas this year?”
“I will eat without guilt.”
“I will stop when satisfied.”
“I will speak kindly to myself.”
Christmas is not a test of willpower. It’s a season of connection.
You are allowed to enjoy food. You are allowed to feel satisfied. And you can return to routine without punishment.
That is a healthier Christmas approach
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